Change, change, change all the way.

Life has become more and more adapting ourselves for a change both personally and professionally.
A Life without a change is unimaginable. I do hesitate to change myself, but how could I be like that? Definitely the ability to come up in our Life relies a lot on the factor that how do we accept a change?
Some physical phenomenon’s naturally change through age. But it is the mental change which has to be taken care I hope.
The world changes in a rapid phase, so as we should be to move along with it.

Take People as they are.

I think this as the biggest challenge hopefully everyone face in our life.
How this happens to be a challenge?
At many part of our life we don’t tend to take complex or even simple happenings with others lightly. We have our own prejudiced ideas over others which obviously can’t be true always.
So something must be done so that I can accept the people as they are.
The first thing which struck my mind is that Expectation might be the root cause for all these confusions. But then without expectation how could we lead a life?
May be we may not involve ourselves voluntarily into so many things for the sake of people surrounding us. Because at one point of time you can’t prevent your mind or heart from expecting something from the people to whom you have done something voluntarily.
At the same time you can’t blame the people if they don’t meet to your expectations, as it is not them who asked from you.
At present I plan do my job and go for someone if they really demand something from you.
But I fear whether I can be like that.

GOD do repay Us

We generally have a tendency of thinking that GOD pays to what we have done only through money. But is it true? When I sit back and think about it I reply to the above question with a strong NO.
Then GOD doesn’t pay only money even He pays you with relations, health and hence happiness.
But we do stuck-up at some point in time that what if I have all these things? Without money how could I live in this society?
What if we lose our relations (parents, friends, children, brothers, sisters, etc.)?
We are in no man’s land if our health is not co-operating with what we intend to do.
So money is nothing if you think it is nothing and it is of all important if you contribute your entire life towards it.
It is more like the sense of creative visualization. If you think that something is going wrong then obviously your thoughts would take you eventually towards that.
So let us make a strong appeal to both your mind and heart that money is always secondary to me.
The primary thing may vary. It may be people, thought, or any other thing but definitely not money.
Almost all of us know these things but the pathetic thing is that we all fear or even fail to bring it into existence in our practical life.

According to my perception, the world gives back what you gave to it.



"You cannot control the length of your life but you can control its width and depth."

~ Tom Anderson

Heart or Mind!!!!

What is the Relationship between mind and heart? Whether we obey to our heart or to our mind?
I get confused as to were we fix up our thoughts whether in our mind and get it done consulting our heart or else we do so in our heart first and then make it up with our mind???
I hope that we can’t see both mind and heart as distinct things logically. May be because of the fact that both of them must act in a synchronized manner.
But there do come some situations at which we get yielded to anyone (i.e., either mind or heart).

How long we tend to lose our Loved Ones????

Right after finishing our schooling, we move away from some of our dearer ones.
After joining college we do go away from our parents. But it is only for sometime, after that we tend to get involved with various activities in college along with our friends. It happens for us to visit our home like a guest.
The time with college is also limited. Even after doing our college we still lose our intimate friends. It is not actually losing them but still we can feel that we are missing them. Though our career demands such kind of partings it is always painful to leave a relationship like this.
My question is how long we would tend to lose all our loved ones? Or it must be accepted as the phenomenon in this Universe which changes in a rapid phase?